Once a subject of taboo, divorce is now becoming increasingly common in Nigeria, with the country’s high divorce rate raising concerns among policymakers, religious leaders, and families alike. Across the country, Nigerians are struggling to reconcile traditional expectations of marriage with the realities of modern life, leading to a rise in marital breakdown and a host of other social issues. Nigeria’s traditional societal norms place a high value on marriage and discourage divorce.
However, many factors are contributing to the growing rate of divorce in the country, including financial struggles, domestic violence, infidelity, and changing gender roles. For women in particular, the decision to end a marriage can be fraught with danger, as they may face stigma and discrimination from their families and communities, as well as economic insecurity and custody battles over children.
Despite these challenges, some Nigerians are challenging the stigma around divorce and advocating more equitable treatment of women in divorce proceedings, including access to alimony and fair division of property. The impact of divorce on children is also a significant concern in Nigeria. Many children from divorced homes are left to navigate the emotional turmoil of their parents’ separation while facing financial hardship and lack of support. The Nigerian government has implemented some initiatives to address the issue of divorce, including increased access to family counseling and legal services. In Anambra State, the Violence Against Persons Prohibition, VAPP Law which was signed into law in 2007 is one of the legal solutions to tackling issues that are contributory to high divorce cases especially its provision on human rights and self realization.
and society at large. They should focus on what brought them together and played down on their differences. Marriages should be guided by love, understanding, tolerance and perseverance. There is no competition in marriage because the only price to be won is a breakdown of the relationship. As Nigerians continue to grapple with the changing dynamics of modern marriage, it is important to remember that divorce is not a sign of failure or weakness, but rather a reflection of the challenges facing many families in the country.
Written by OBIOMA OBUNADIKE
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