wellbeing. Some of these children have undeterred access to phonographic sites which give them unrealistic and negative view and perception about sex. Many of these sites glorify homosexuality, lesbianism and other abnormal sexual relationship that are likely to plant negative sexual orientation in their sub-consciousness. Many of them are exposed to cyber dating and cyber sex as well as sex addiction and masturbation.
Similarly, the increasing rate of cult activities, violence and killings according to experts, are not unconnected with exposure to internet. Many of the adult sites celebrate violence as entertainment content which children often misconstrue as
norm and demonstration of prowess and status symbol in the society. Children also meet and interact with people of different characters online who can give them dangerous indoctrination that can awaken violent tendencies.
Again, Children who spend more time on internet can become less connected to family and friends as they gradually get use to virtual connection where they share photos, video and text messages online. This weakens the bond between parents and their children. In a similar view, allowing children unfettered access to internet will decrease their physical and psychological wellbeing which could lead to distress, anger, loss of self control, social withdrawal, family conflict, isolation, depression and even suicide.
Similarly, overuse of digital devices reduces the quantity and quality of sleep children receive and lack of sleep can have serious consequences on brain activities.
There have been cases where children buy game credit online without even informing their parents. Allowing this practice to continue would encourage a child to develop and nurture appetite for gambling and betting. Today many graduates are more interested in spending their time at betting centres instead of engaging in productive activities to help build the economy. The emergence of Covid-19 has made on-line teaching and learning indispensable aspect of the school system in every country across the world. This has put more digital devices in the hands of more children without much control and guidance.
When it is necessary for children to use phone, tablet or computer, parents should ensure that they are present to keep an eye on what they are doing online. This will encourage them to feel free and comfortable talking about their online experience. It is equally important for parents to explain to their children some of the bad things that can happen online and why it’s important to be careful while using internet devices and need to protect personal information including their name, phone number, school or home address as well as photos among others to ensure their safety. Let us remember that wisdom, knowledge and skills are important for survival; but they must be applied properly.
Written by PAUL EZEOKE
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